Friday, June 27, 2008

In Response to Ronald Lewis' What You See is What You Get

In response to Ronald Lewis' brain numbing post once again lying about who he is, his post is below:

Bullshit, read this:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypocrite

Hypocrisy (or the state of being a hypocrite) is the act of preaching a certain belief or way of life, but not, in fact, holding these same virtues oneself. For example, a teacher telling students they should not plagiarize, while secretly being a plagiarist himself. Hypocrisy is frequently invoked as an accusation in many contexts.

Or as in a Ronald Lewis claiming publicly he has transcended race while encouraging others to follow, when in fact he’s secretly a racist himself. Perfect example is his comments about the black girls, yet not uttering a word about the white girls.

Hey, the argument that you’re just attracted to white girls won’t fly here buddy. White dude’s can’t use that as an excuse, so neither can you.

Or as in a Ronald Lewis publicly professing his non belief in the existence of race, while at the same time secretly blaming “race” for his problems. Perfect example is in Ronald telling Matt if he (ron) were white he’d have it much easier. Nah, has nothing to do with race, does it?

In case you didn’t know Ron, you don’t have to be white to be a racist.

Explain how those examples are not hypocrisy by its own definition. You can’t.

I think I’m more disturbed because I believed your psycho babble for months before finally meeting and hearing the contradicting statements. What you post here, and what you truly believe are nearly polar opposites.

In reference to the things you heard that night that were so hurtful, were hurtful because they were true.

For instance, one topic of conversation - You want women to be more aggressive and approach you. I distinctly remember the solution. Move to the Amazon. Women there are aggressive. So aggressive, they’ll bend you over and stick it up your ass. You’d be their bitch.

Obviously, you wouldn’t do that, but the thought of it is hilarious. It’s exactly what you want, right? Well, hop on a plane bud, and go get you an aggressive Amazonian. I’m sure they need an extra worker bee in their tribe.

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The Original Post of Ronald the Hypocrite
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There are some folks who think I’m a hypocrite and that I live an alternate lifestyle here on my blog. That couldn’t be more false. This blog is the only place in the world where I can truly be myself, while sharing my deepest thoughts, frustrations, disappointments and more. Between my blog, lifecast, Twitter, articles and the online communities where I participate, there aren’t any secrets about who I am, what I am and what I believe in, as evident in these posts:

Is My Heart Empty (Or Am I Just Numbed?)
Mass Media’s Influence on Dating (and Why I Refuse to Participate)
5 Reasons Why I’m Single
Is Dating THAT Bad in North America?
I Lost My Heart, Only To Find It Again

There are friends and mentors alike who believe I should ‘tone down’ on my ‘rhetoric’ about social constructs, dating and women, just so I don’t run the risk of offending people. However, I believe this is the exact reason why people don’t pay attention to details, because most things are far too sugarcoated, rather than told in the way it should be.

There was a time in life when I held everything in. I wouldn’t dare express my opinion, for I feared that I wouldn’t be liked because of them. For example, I stopped believing in the idea of religion and “God” when I was about 10 years old. Unfortunately, it was difficult to communicate this, and I often swallowed my own values to appease others. That’s just one of many examples.

Today, I am pretty rough around the edges with regard to many things. I don’t hide my disdain for dating or women at times. Also, I have very little tolerance or patience these days for those who cannot see the obvious. All of these things are very apparent to thousands of people each month. What keeps these people coming back? It’s my willingness to live an open and honest life — No matter how harsh or kind.

There will always be people attacking my principles, views and values. This is nothing new to me. It comes with the territory. I liken these individuals to crabs that are obsessed with hindering another’s progress. They can’t stand the thought of someone who wishes to remain independent of society’s constructed reality.

by the Ronald Lewis, the global generalist